10 Ways To Be Happy On V-Day With Someone Or Not
08. February 2012
VALENTINE’S day is a red letter day for lovers all over the globe.
But for some singles this day is a dreadful experience they want to forget. Actually there is no reason to be sorry on Valentines day regardless if you are single or not since the occasion is intended for all.
Here are 10 tips to guide you make this day extra special regardless if you are single or not.
1. Love is year round not one day
If you are a single person on Valentines day you must not feel bad about it and think you are such a loser. Instead of feeling sorry for being single think positive and instill in your mind that Valentines day is not only a one day affair but rather a year round celebration. You must embrace a frame of mind that eventhough you are alone on this day you can still show your love to your family and friends. To those who will celebrate Valentines day with someone to love on their side just a simple reminder keep your fire of love beyond this day. Couples must express their love everyday not only on the love month to keep the fire of their passion burning.
2. Do not expect too much
Having someone by your side on Valentines day is such a precious gift to a person. But sometimes we do not really appreciate the fact that we have our partner to celebrate Valentine’s day especially if this person have not live to our expectation. The secret to achieve happiness during Valentines day is not to have so much expectation from our love one on this particular day. If our partner has a gift for you take it and be grateful and if he or she has no present to give you accept such fact and just be grateful that both of you are still alive to celebrate Valentine’s day together. If you happen to be single on Valentine’s day just celebrate the day with your family and friends and do not provide any room for expectation so that you will not be disappointed.
3. Avoid drama just pure fun
Valentine’s day is a day of celebration and joy any form of stress and sorrow should be avoided. Always remember that in the 365 days of a year this is the special day or week set aside for lovers or singles to express their love so we must enjoy this day fully. Whatever experiences you will encounter on this day accept it with a smile and positive outlook. Living each day is already a drama in itself so for at least a day or week take time not to engage in tear jerking activity instead be happy in everything.
4. Spend like a king
Valentine’s day is just a one day or week-long affair so make sure to make this occasion special for you and your lover by with a lavish treat for the two of you. Take time to save money days or months before the big day so that you buy all the special things and foods you wish to eat and go to romantic places you and your partner dream about. This day is such a special day for lovers so treat yourself like real kings by spending huge amount of money to please each other. It is always laudable to spend less so that you can have savings but take exception on this day so that both you and your lover will be extremely happy and satisfied on this red letter affair.
5. No pressure on first date
To all singles to want to find love on Valentine’s day should not put too much pressure on themselves to engage in a romantic relationship. Before plunging into a relationship singles should first examine themselves thoroughly if they are indeed ready of having relationship with someone. If singles immediately enter into a relationship without any reflection has a big tendency of being hurt in the end due to his or her hasty decision. Remember if you find love on the first date then you are such a lucky person, and if you will not find a mate then accept it with an open heart, maybe fate has other far better plans for you.
6. Spend the day to persons closest to you
If it happens that you are single on Valentines day no need to worry about your situation. Instead of feeling sorry for yourself, spend the day with the persons closes to you like your family and best of friends. Valentine’s day is a special occasion to be happy and love for all regardless of your status in life. Why locked yourself in a room and agonized spend it instead into a merrymaking activity with your family and friends.
7. Avoid drinking spree
Strive hard to be sober on Valentine’s day by avoiding any drinking spree with your closes friends. Remember it is always better to spend Valentines day without the influence of liquor so that you fully enjoy this occasion with your special someone, family and friends. If you drink hard on Valentine’s day most likely you will end up having a severe headache on the following day. Your partner would also appreciate it more if you spend Valentine’s day with him or her on a clear mind and body.
8. Don’t use the day to further or end love
To all couples if you some problems to be resolve in your relationship do not use Valentine’s day as the occasion you will use to reconcile with each other. If you have problems, worked out that problem together even before Valentine’s day so that both of you can fully enjoy the affair instead of having discussion on your married life. If you come to the situation that you have no more love for your mate avoid using Valentine’s day as the day you will broke his or her heart. Valentine’s day is a day of happiness and love so avoid instances to hurt other people on this very special occasion. To all singles do not feel sad and insecure if you have no relationship this day since your lack of special someone do not make you lesser beings from those who have relationships.
9. Day to evaluate yourself
To all couples Valentines day is the occasion both of you could engage into a self reflection to evaluate your relationship. Men and women who have a commitment with each other could use this day to plan and sort things out to further improve their relationships. For singles this is the perfect opportunity to evaluate yourself on what you want in life and if you are already ready to engage into a romantic relationship with someone.
10. Express your love everyday
To fully enjoy Valentine’s day take time to express your love to your special someone, family and friends in a daily basis. You will not anymore feel lonely on this special occasion if you are already used to showing your love to everyone everyday. Being in love is such a wondrous feelings so take time to experience it daily by doing special gestures to your mate, family and friends.