08. October 2011
Make sure the one you are dating is not married. (Photo: inbruges.info)
One of the common problems that singles face in life, is not only on finding the person to love, but making sure that person had no romantic commitment in life. Finding out if your date is married is not an easy task, since the a married person on date an flatly deny it except if he or she is honest enough to admit it. Although the task is not easy there are some early warning signs that your date is already committed to someone else.
1. Hard to reach telephone lines
If you will have a hard time contacting your date in his or her home, office and mobile number the most likely reason is he or she is married and do not want their partner to discover he or she is having an illicit affair. Those persons who cannot be reached in their phones are not worthy to be trusted since they cannot be there with you if ever there is an emergency.
2. No permanent address
A person you are dating who has no permanent address is showing tell tale signs he or she is already married. If your date wants to constantly visit you at your office or house but will not allow you to do the same to him or her, there is a big possibility he is hiding the truth that he is already a married person. No person in his right mind would not give his exact address to the person he or she is courting if he or she unless they are hiding something.
3. Not keen to discuss personal life
Have you dated someone who refuse to reveal to you any personal information about him or her? That person could be hiding something from you that relevant information could be the fact that he or she is married. Remember if a person is really sincere in loving you he or she must tell you relevant information about his or he life.
4. Not too interested in public places
Another interesting signal that the one you are dating is when that person is not interested to go out on a date with in a regular basis in public places like mall, park and restaurants. You must realize that married persons who cheats on their mate by going on a date with single persons love to hide in places where they cannot be easily be found like the house of their date or places that are not frequented by people.
5. Odd calling hours
Another easy to detect sign that the person you are dating is married is when he or she calls you during odd and unexpected hours of a day. When he or she calls in the wee hours of the night when you are already sleeping. If he or she has no obligation why would he or she not call during normal hours unless they are hiding something.
6. Mum on pictures on wallet or belongings
If a person you are dating is not interested to discuss the photos of a woman and children in his wallet or persona belongings that person could be married. A person who have nothing to hide is confident in discussing anything that can be found in his or her wallet and personal belongings.
7. Afraid of PDA
If your date is afraid of holding your hands, kissing and hugging you in public there is a big tendency he or she married. A person who is free from any form of commitment is not afraid to engage in Public Display of Affection (PDA) if he or she really truly loves you.
8. No visible friends
A person who is courting you if he or she is indeed sure with their intention should also be open to tell you their friends. If he or she loves to go out with you without their friends the possibility is they are hiding something from you. Long lasting relationship do not rest on two people but the bunch of friends that around their relationship.