11. September 2011
Being in love is okay but dealing with forbidden love is not easy it needs total commitment between lovers. (Photo: davedubrow.com)
Having a relationship is such a great feeling especially if we really love the person. However, sadly not all relationship are what they seem to be due to problems couples faces such as age gap, religion, social status and standing among others. If age, religion, social status and standing enters into the picture in a relationship more often such type of bond is considered a forbidden love. Most of us as much as possible hate to have a forbidden love affair, but if fate allow you to experience it, how would you take it? Here are some tips on how to properly handle this situation if it comes to you.
A. Proper communication
Hiding a relationship from your family and the prying eyes of the public is not an easy task. Having a relationship that is considered taboo certainly offers huge problems and challenges to the concerned couple. To cope up with the difficult situation, couples should have a good communication lines with each other. The couple should discuss their situation properly and hear each others side on the matter. Each of the couple should set the barometer of their relationship to determine the expectation and concern of each other.
B. Seek guidance from friends
In a difficult situation like having a forbidden relationship it would be best to have your friends at your side.Friends always play a crucial role in every difficult situation to make life easy for their buddy in need. At first it is understandable that your friend will advise you to stop that relationship, but if you tell that you care and love your mate, they will eventually understand in the end. It would be best to battle the storm with your friends at your side right?
C. Solace from family
More than anyone else in this planet, it is our family that really wish us all the best in life.It would just be appropriate that we allow them to give us advice on this problem you are dealing at the moment. Your family might oppose your relationship but they are still your life they deserve to know your situation and offer solution to it. You might not like the reaction of your family but you have to take their advise as major consideration in your decision.
D. Attraction or love?
With your present situation of having a forbidden love affair it is time for you to examine yourself to determine if what you felt for the person is love or just pure attraction. Sometimes, entering in a forbidden relationship is not base on love but merely on the thrill of taking risk in a relationship. If you want a long relationship better take a deeper look in yourself if you really truly love this person. If you realized that you do not really totally love this person it is time to end the relationship and find love from someone else.
E. Be closer to each other
If what you feel for each other is indeed real love then you need to be closer to each other in your difficult situation. They say the strength of the couple is tested during trying and challenging times right?If both of you share the same heart and mind then fight for your love and you will reap rewards in the end. The hardships and difficult situations you face in your relationship will not only keep you together but will also develop your over-all personality.