19. August 2011
To fall in-love with your co-worker is a common occurrence around the world. (Photo: qwikstep.eu)
To date a co-worker and capture his/her heart is a dream shared by a number of employees and employers today.
Many in the workforce had a heart for each other, but are just hesitant to express it because of the “sexual harassment” fear. Well, those persons who are in-love with their co-workers had something to cheer since Bill Gates, one the richest man in the world marry his former Microsoft employee Melinda French.
Here are a few tips on how to successfully capture the heart of a co-worker.
1. Just once
As a mature person, a man should respect the decision of a co-worker who refuses to have a date with him. If a man repeatedly ask for a date despite the refusal of the woman, it is a sign he is a desperate man who do not deserve her love.
2. Build friendship
Before seeking a date, a man should build friendship first with a co-worker. It would be best for the two souls involve to be friends so that they will know the potential consequences of their impending relationship. It is also easy to get her love if both of you had become good friends already.
3. Take things slowly
You will have a better chances of getting the heart of your co-worker if you will not rush things up. Get to know each other well first before you take your relationship into another level.If you will rush things the tendency to fail is very much higher.
4. No flirting at work
If both of you really love each other, agree to set up a rule of “no flirting at work” to keep you employment status. Passion and work are very different from each other, so both parties should know the limitations in order not to face chances of getting fired at work. The two of you should agree that all your lovey dobey be done after your work.
5. Face rumors confidently
If you have a love relationship in the workplace it is inevitable that rumors would circulate. The two of you should face whatever issues that will come out regarding your relationship. If your relationship is for real, fight for it even in-front of your employer. Tell your employer and co-workers that they have nothing to fear, since you will keep your relationship professional as possible. Make sure you avoid public display of affection in order not to get the ire of your employer and co-workers.